Safety

Your safety is non-negotiable.

Arranged is built with safety at its core. Here's how we protect our community and how you can protect yourself.

Platform safety features

Verification

We offer photo verification and income verification to help you confirm that members are who they say they are. Verified badges are displayed prominently on profiles.

Block & report

You can block any member at any time. Blocked members cannot see your profile, message you, or interact with you in any way. Reports are reviewed by our team within 24 hours.

Privacy controls

Hide your profile from search, blur your photos for non-matches, hide your income details, and enable private browsing. You control exactly who sees what.

Mutual matching

You can only message someone after a mutual match. This eliminates unwanted messages and puts you in control of every conversation.

Safety tips for meeting in person

Meet in public. For your first meeting, always choose a public place — a restaurant, hotel lobby, or coffee shop. Never go to a private location for a first date.

Tell someone. Let a trusted friend or family member know where you're going, who you're meeting, and when you expect to be back. Share your live location if possible.

Arrange your own transportation. Drive yourself or use a rideshare. Don't rely on your date for transportation, especially for the first meeting.

Trust your instincts. If something feels off, leave. You don't owe anyone an explanation. Your safety is more important than being polite.

Protect your finances. Never send money to someone you haven't met in person. Legitimate connections don't require financial deposits, fees, or upfront payments.

Video chat first. Consider a video call before meeting in person. It helps verify identity and builds comfort before committing to an in-person date.

Keep personal details private. Don't share your home address, workplace, or financial details until you've built trust over multiple meetings.

Community guidelines

Arranged is a community for consenting adults to form mutually beneficial relationships. We do not tolerate:

  • Harassment, threats, or abusive behavior
  • Solicitation of prostitution or escort services
  • Fraud, scams, or financial exploitation
  • Fake profiles or impersonation
  • Sharing explicit content without consent
  • Minors on the platform (you must be 18+)
  • Drug solicitation or illegal activity

Violations result in immediate account suspension and potential reporting to law enforcement where appropriate.

Need help?

If you feel unsafe or need to report a concern, contact us at safety@getarranged.io. In case of emergency, always contact local law enforcement first.